Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Straight From The Heart..



My fav song eva.. its coming straight from the heart..:)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1navr5Mzvg8&feature=related

STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART (Bryan Adams)

I could start dreamin' but it'd never end
As long as you're gone we may as well pretend
I've been dreamin'
Straight from the heart
You said it's easy but who's to say
That we'd be able to keep it this way
But it's easier
Comin' straight from the heart
Oh, give it to me straight from the heart
Tell me we can make another start
You know I'll never go - as long as I know
It's comin' straight from the heart

I'll see you on the street some other time
And all our words would just fall out of line
While we're dreamin'
Straight from the heart
Oh, give it to me straight from the heart
Tell me we can make one more start
You know I'll never go - as long as I know
It's comin' straight from the heart
Straight from the heart
Tell me we can make one more start
You know I'll never go - as long as I know
Give it to me now
Straight from the heart
Tell me we can make one more start
You know I'll never go - as long as I know
It's comin' straight from the heart
Give it to me, oh no ! Oh no !
Straight from the heart
You know I'll never go - as long as I know
It's comin' straight from the heart

About LOVE


Just wanna shares something which can make u realise about love... and try to learn from it..

Somebody told me that 'Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong... it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there.. you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you.. and don't rush things.. coz somewhere somehow GOD is preparing somebody for you.
'You can never be perfect.. the person you love can never be perfect.. but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without GOD.. that's why we have marriage it's a bond not only between you and your loved one.. but also with GOD.
Our relationships fail not because she/he's not the right person..it's because we expect too much and we decided on our own.. let GOD do the work..you may call it waiting.. pray. Let GOD guide you always... He knows better. He knows best.Love is not what you think it is.. Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined. When we think we're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us.
We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD i have ever received.. "After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest mistake i've ever made for my entire life..!!!. "Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E ? Are you really deeply into it?Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc. "would end up "Never" and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!".
Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "She/He ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come."But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist taht you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship.

You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there is a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you alredy knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life.It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave no one would accept us and our past.We are mistaken, it's just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.................

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Listen For LOVE..


There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you."

So we try to communicate the idea in other words.We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.'We are sometimes very strange people.

The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say.And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed insincerely.
An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different. Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface.

A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room.The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same.
A daughter comes home late, way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listens carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you," the father is saying. 'Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.'We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely.We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness.

Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express. The problem is listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love.The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the _expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize.

Listen! for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place after all. LOVE is a happy thing.It makes us laugh.It makes us sing.It makes us sad.It makes us cry.It makes us seek the reason why.It makes us take.It makes us give.Above all else it makes us LIVE.It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter ofbeing present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present to someone. So remember...

If you love someone, tell them. Remember always to say what you mean. Never be afraid to express yourself. Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you. Seize the day and have no regrets.

Most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today and are what it's all about anyway..

Temukan Cinta Anda...


Bila anda tak mencintai pekerjaan anda, maka cintailah orang-orang yang bekerja di sana... Rasakan kegembiraan dari pertemanan itu.
Dan, pekerjaan pun jadi menggembirakan.
Bila anda tak bisa mencintai rakan-rakan kerja anda, maka cintailah suasana dan ruang kerja anda. Ini mendorong anda untuk berghairah berangkat kerja dan melakukan tugas-tugas dengan lebih baik lagi.
Bila tiba anda juga tidak bisa melakukannya, cintai setiap pengalaman pulang pergi dari dan ke tempat kerja anda. Perjalanan yang menyenangkan menjadikan tujuan tampak menyenangkan juga..
Namun, bila anda tak menemukan kesenangan di sana, maka cintai apa pun yang bisa anda cintai dari kerja anda: tanaman penghias meja, cicak di atas dinding, atau gumpalan awan dari balik jendela. Apa saja...
Bila anda tak menemukan yang bisa anda cintai dari pekerjaan anda, maka mengapa anda ada di situ?
Tak ada alasan bagi anda untuk tetap bertahan. Cepat pergi dan carilah apa yang anda cintai, lalu bekerjalah di sana.
Hidup hanya sekali...
Tak ada yang lebih indah selain melakukan dengan rasa cinta yang tulus.:)

Friday, December 14, 2007

Destinasi Cinta..


Hmmm...

Rupa-rupanya ada mata yang bukan saja memandang tapi mampu mendengar dan membaca gerak langkah ku di tempat kerja.. Aku berterima kasih kepada empunya mata itu yang telah memperkenalkan lagu ini kepada ku... So, as far as i concern, sharing is caring.... Hayati dan selamilah lagu ini dengan hati yang tersemi.. Semoga kita sama-sama mendapat manafaat dari apa yang cuba disampaikan dari lagu nasyid ini...."Destinasi cinta yang ku cari...Sebenarnya terlalu hampir....Hanya kabur kerana dosa di dalam hati...."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPPOLMfQS9c



Destinasi Cinta
Album : Munsyid :

Mesticahttp://liriknasyid.com

Menyingkap tirai hati
Mengintai keampunan
Di halaman subur rahmat-Mu Tuhan
Tiap jejak nan bertapak
Debu kejahilan
Akan ku jirus dengan madu keimanan
Tak ternilai airmata dengan permata
Yang bisa memadamkan api neraka
Andai benar mengalir dari nasuha nurani
Tak kan berpaling pada palsu duniawi

Destinasi cinta yang ku cari...
Sebenarnya terlalu hampir
Hanya kabur kerana dosa di dalam hati
Telah ku redah daerah cinta
Yang lahir dari wadah yang alpa
Tiada tenang ku temui
Hanya kecewa menyelubungi

C/O
Ku gelintar segenap maya
Dambakan sebutir hakikat
Untuk ku semai menjadi sepohon makrifat
Moga dapat ku berteduh di rendang kasih-Mu
Namun ranjaunya tidak akan sunyi
Selagi denyut nadi belum berhenti
Durjana syaitan kan cuba menodai
Segumpal darah bernama hati (Destinasi cinta Ilahi)

Lestarikan wadi kalbuku, oh Tuhanku
Leraikan aku dari pautan nafsu
Biarpun sukar bagiku melamar redha-Mu
Namun masihku mengharap ampunan-Mu
Wahai Tuhanku?
Ya Allah?

Lagu : Abai Os (Hijjaz Records Sdn. Bhd.)
Lirik : Frizdan (Hijjaz Records Sdn. Bhd.)
Hakcipta : Hijjaz Records Sdn. Bhd.
Penerbit : Faizal Osman
Program Muzik : Trabye

Wallahualam..

Cinta......


Alhamdulillah....

Segalanya sudah terjawab... Past is past..Let gone be by gone.. Nothing can change the past.. Let it be the greatest memories in mylife..

Akan ku penuhi hidupku dgn hidup baru.. tak perlu lagi ku cari cinta yang tiada maknanya bagi mereka yang tidak tahu menilai.. Cinta tak semestinya di nilai dan terlihat dengan kata-kata manis dan manja... Cinta adalah satu anugerah yang cuma dimiliki oleh insan2 istimewa.. Itulah cinta sejati dan suci.. HAdir dari hati yang ikhlas kerana Allah SWT.. Bukan berlandaskan nafsu dan keinginan duniawi semata.. Ku masih mencari cinta.. Dimanakah kau duhai cinta.. Cinta yang sering menghantui dan menari2 di lantai tari waktu tidurku.. yang sering mengganggu lelap mataku.. Di manakah dikau duhai cinta.. Perlukah aku terus menunggu... Perlukah aku teruskan hidupku tanpamu..

Aku wanita yang punya cinta di hati
Dan dirimu dan dirinya dalam hidupku
Mengapa terlambat
cintamu telah termiliki
Sedang diriku dengan dia tak begitu cinta
Mengapa yang lain bisa
Mendua dengan mudahnya
Namun kita terbelenggu
Dalam ikatan tanpa cinta
Atas nama cinta
Hati ini tak mungkin terbagi
Sampai nanti bila aku mati
Cinta ini hanya untuk engkau
Atas nama cinta
Kurelakan jalanku merana
Asal engkau akhirnya denganku
Kubersumpah atas nama cinta
Mengapa yang lain bisa
Mendua dengan mudahnya
Namun kita terbelenggu
Dalam ikatan tanpa cinta....

Sedey jek dengar lagu ni apa lagi bila tengok videoklip lagu ni...



Aku pernah menyintai seseorang tapi rasanya tak sampai kot tahap cinta.. suke je kot.. dan kini si dia dah pun menjadi suami orang malah dah jadi bapak budak pun.. Perasaan suka tu hadir entah bila dan aku sendiri realise perasaan tu bila dari hari ke hari aku jadi tak tahan kerana cemburu kot..:) bila asyik dengar cerita lama dia ngan x-gf dia dulu which is my close friend that time... Oleh kerana ako dah tak tahan aku sengaja jauhkan diri dari dia dan bila dia tahu dari kawan2 pasal perasaan aku, dia sendiri terkejut n tak percaya tentang realiti itu... Tapi, the best part is dia nak jadikan aku bini no 2 dia.. banyak cantik.. tapi, tak tau la kan kalau betul jodohku dengan suami org, aku terpaksa redha, tapi jauh di lubuk hatiku, aku sentiasa doakan jodohku bukanlah dengan suami sesiapa, bukanlah suami wanita lain yang terpaksa berkongsi kasih denganku, bukanlah suami wanita yang lebih dulu di ijabkabukan dengan lelaki itu yang dulunya pernah berjanji akan setia sehidup semati, seia sekata.. lelaki begitukah yang akan ku kahwini? Oh tidak... sedangkan janjinya dengan wanita terdahulu dariku tidak di tepati apatah lagi janjinya padaku, wanita yang mencemari kehidupan bahagia wanita lain? Sudah tentulah balasan padaku lebih teruk lagi...

Entahlah... dalam usia begini hidupku terasa begitu kosong... sunyi dan suram.. tiada bezanya hidupku kini yang menghampiri usia 30 tahun.. beginikah hidupku hingga ke akhirnya? adakah ini sudah tersurat dalam takdir riwayat hidupku... Bangun pagi.. mandi, solat subuh... pegi keje... malam balik rumah... kalau rajin, masak... kalau tak, beli... pastu tengok tv kejap, tertido... esoknya bangun balik dan routine yang sama akan terus berulang shinggalah hari jumaat... sabtu dan ahad nya pulak aku habiskan seharian di UTM, belajar... entah sampai bila nak habis.. Rasanya dah terlalu penat dengan kehidupan yang sehambar ini... Aku inginkan kehidupan yang baru.. yang penuh dengan bunga2 cinta.. penuh dengan kasih sayang... Entahlah.. Bila dah tak tau apa nak buat, aku bela ikan.. tapi semau ikan tu mati... hmmm sedey giler bila sekor demi sekor ikan aku mati... napelah jadi cam gitu.. kesian ikan2 tu sume.. aku dah jaga bebaik tapi... salah aku jugak.. yang taruk bunga plastik dalam air tu watpe.. habis mati ikan tu sume kena water polution.. iskk.. serik aku nak bela ikan.. Pastu aku bela bali kaktus.. dulu dah penah bela, tapi mati gak.. kali ni tak tau la bape lama nak tahan kaktus2 tu ngan aku.. Agaknya memang dah nasib badan.. tak ada yang akan kekal berdampingan denganku...

Hmmm... aku hanya mampu mengeluh namun aku tetap bersyukur dengan segala yg telah tercatat dalam catatan harian hidupku.. Ya.. aku percaya semua ini telah tertulis dengan penamat yang baik.. Setiap apa yang telah tertakdir untuk kita tentu telah direncanakan oleh Allah...


Hanya Allah yang MAHA Mengetahui yang terbaik untuk hamba-Nya...

Ameen... Ya Rabbal A'lamin..